搞定了,谢谢了
//增加
        private void btnAdd_Click(object sender, EventArgs e)
        {
            //信息不能为空
            if (txtID.Text.Trim() == "" || txtName.Text.Trim() == ""||dtpTime .Text .Trim ()=="")
            {
                MessageBox.Show("信息没有填完整!","警告",MessageBoxButtons .OK ,MessageBoxIcon.Warning );
                return;
            }           
            //创建一个学生对象
            Student m_Stu = new Student();           
            //把输入的内容赋给学生
           m_Stu.StuID = txtID.Text;
           m_Stu.StuName = txtName.Text;
            if (radMale.Checked)
            {
                m_Stu.StuSex = "男";
            }
            else
            {
                m_Stu.StuSex = "女";
            }
            m_Stu.StuAge = dtpTime.Value.ToShortDateString ();
           if (MessageBox.Show("是否增加学员信息?", "提示", MessageBoxButtons.OKCancel, MessageBoxIcon.Asterisk) == DialogResult.OK)
            {
                SqlConnection connection = new SqlConnection();
                        try
                        {
                            string strAdd = "insert StuInfo values('" + m_Stu.StuID + "','" + m_Stu.StuName + "','" + m_Stu.StuSex + "','" + m_Stu.StuAge + "')";
                            connection.ConnectionString = "server=4F141ACC49A245D;uid=sa;pwd=sa;database=Students";
                            connection.Open();
                            SqlCommand command = new SqlCommand(strAdd, connection);
                            command.ExecuteNonQuery();
                            //调用增加学员的方法
                            StuList.AddStu(m_Stu);
                            //把学员信息存放在一个数组中,并增加到listview的行中
                            string[] strValue = new string[4];
                            strValue[0] = m_Stu.StuID;
                            strValue[1] = m_Stu.StuName;
                            strValue[2] = m_Stu.StuSex;
                            strValue[3] = m_Stu.StuAge;
                            m_ViewItem = new ListViewItem(strValue);
                            lsvStuInfo.Items.Add(m_ViewItem);
                        }
                        catch (SqlException ex)
                        {
                            MessageBox.Show("学号已存在!");                            
                        }
                        finally
                        {
                            connection.Close();
                        }
                }
             }