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using System;
using System.Drawing;
using System.Collections;
using System.ComponentModel;
using System.Windows.Forms;
using System.Data;
using System.Data.OleDb;
using  System.IO;
namespace 插入图片完整版
{
    /// <summary>
    /// Form1 的摘要说明。
    /// </summary>
    public class Form1 : System.Windows.Forms.Form
    {
        string fullname;
        private System.Windows.Forms.PictureBox pictureBox1;
        private System.Windows.Forms.Button button1;
        private System.Windows.Forms.Button button2;
        private System.Windows.Forms.OpenFileDialog openFileDialog1;
        OleDbConnection con;
        private System.Windows.Forms.DataGrid dataGrid1;
        private System.Windows.Forms.DataGridTableStyle dataGridTableStyle1;
        private System.Windows.Forms.DataGridTextBoxColumn dataGridTextBoxColumn1;
        private System.Windows.Forms.TextBox picName;
        OleDbDataAdapter da;
        DataSet ds;
        private System.Windows.Forms.Label label1;
        /// <summary>
        /// 必需的设计器变量。
        /// </summary>
        private System.ComponentModel.Container components = null;
        public Form1()
        {
            //
            // Windows 窗体设计器支持所必需的
            //
            InitializeComponent();
            //
            // TODO: 在 InitializeComponent 调用后添加任何构造函数代码
            //
        }
        /// <summary>
        /// 清理所有正在使用的资源。
        /// </summary>
        protected override void Dispose( bool disposing )
        {
            if( disposing )
            {
                if (components != null) 
                {
                    components.Dispose();
                }
            }
            base.Dispose( disposing );
        }
        #region Windows 窗体设计器生成的代码
        /// <summary>
        /// 设计器支持所需的方法 - 不要使用代码编辑器修改
        /// 此方法的内容。
        /// </summary>
        private void InitializeComponent()
        {
            this.pictureBox1 = new System.Windows.Forms.PictureBox();
            this.button1 = new System.Windows.Forms.Button();
            this.button2 = new System.Windows.Forms.Button();
            this.openFileDialog1 = new System.Windows.Forms.OpenFileDialog();
            this.picName = new System.Windows.Forms.TextBox();
            this.dataGrid1 = new System.Windows.Forms.DataGrid();
            this.dataGridTableStyle1 = new System.Windows.Forms.DataGridTableStyle();
            this.dataGridTextBoxColumn1 = new System.Windows.Forms.DataGridTextBoxColumn();
            this.label1 = new System.Windows.Forms.Label();
            ((System.ComponentModel.ISupportInitialize)(this.dataGrid1)).BeginInit();
            this.SuspendLayout();
            // 
            // pictureBox1
            // 
            this.pictureBox1.BackColor = System.Drawing.Color.White;
            this.pictureBox1.Location = new System.Drawing.Point(40, 80);
            this.pictureBox1.Name = "pictureBox1";
            this.pictureBox1.Size = new System.Drawing.Size(416, 352);
            this.pictureBox1.SizeMode = System.Windows.Forms.PictureBoxSizeMode.StretchImage;
            this.pictureBox1.TabIndex = 0;
            this.pictureBox1.TabStop = false;
            // 
            // button1
            // 
            this.button1.Location = new System.Drawing.Point(528, 15);
            this.button1.Name = "button1";
            this.button1.Size = new System.Drawing.Size(64, 23);
            this.button1.TabIndex = 1;
            this.button1.Text = "浏览图片";
            this.button1.Click += new System.EventHandler(this.button1_Click);
            // 
            // button2
            // 
            this.button2.Location = new System.Drawing.Point(616, 15);
            this.button2.Name = "button2";
            this.button2.Size = new System.Drawing.Size(64, 23);
            this.button2.TabIndex = 2;
            this.button2.Text = "保 存";
            this.button2.Click += new System.EventHandler(this.button2_Click);
            // 
            // picName
            // 
            this.picName.Location = new System.Drawing.Point(256, 15);
            this.picName.Name = "picName";
            this.picName.Size = new System.Drawing.Size(248, 21);
            this.picName.TabIndex = 3;
            this.picName.Text = "";
            // 
            // dataGrid1
            // 
            this.dataGrid1.BackgroundColor = System.Drawing.SystemColors.ActiveCaptionText;
            this.dataGrid1.CaptionBackColor = System.Drawing.SystemColors.Control;
            this.dataGrid1.DataMember = "";
            this.dataGrid1.HeaderForeColor = System.Drawing.SystemColors.ControlText;
            this.dataGrid1.Location = new System.Drawing.Point(504, 88);
            this.dataGrid1.Name = "dataGrid1";
            this.dataGrid1.ReadOnly = true;
            this.dataGrid1.Size = new System.Drawing.Size(176, 344);
            this.dataGrid1.TabIndex = 4;
            this.dataGrid1.TableStyles.AddRange(new System.Windows.Forms.DataGridTableStyle[] {
                                                                                                  this.dataGridTableStyle1});
            this.dataGrid1.Click += new System.EventHandler(this.dataGrid1_Click);
            // 
            // dataGridTableStyle1
            // 
            this.dataGridTableStyle1.DataGrid = this.dataGrid1;
            this.dataGridTableStyle1.GridColumnStyles.AddRange(new System.Windows.Forms.DataGridColumnStyle[] {
                                                                                                                  this.dataGridTextBoxColumn1});
            this.dataGridTableStyle1.HeaderForeColor = System.Drawing.SystemColors.ControlText;
            this.dataGridTableStyle1.MappingName = "image1";
            // 
            // dataGridTextBoxColumn1
            // 
            this.dataGridTextBoxColumn1.Format = "";
            this.dataGridTextBoxColumn1.FormatInfo = null;
            this.dataGridTextBoxColumn1.HeaderText = "图片编号:";
            this.dataGridTextBoxColumn1.MappingName = "id";
            this.dataGridTextBoxColumn1.Width = 75;
            // 
            // label1
            // 
            this.label1.Location = new System.Drawing.Point(48, 48);
            this.label1.Name = "label1";
            this.label1.Size = new System.Drawing.Size(296, 23);
            this.label1.TabIndex = 5;
            // 
            // Form1
            // 
            this.AutoScaleBaseSize = new System.Drawing.Size(6, 14);
            this.ClientSize = new System.Drawing.Size(696, 454);
            this.Controls.Add(this.label1);
            this.Controls.Add(this.dataGrid1);
            this.Controls.Add(this.picName);
            this.Controls.Add(this.button2);
            this.Controls.Add(this.button1);
            this.Controls.Add(this.pictureBox1);
            this.MaximizeBox = false;
            this.MinimizeBox = false;
            this.Name = "Form1";
            this.StartPosition = System.Windows.Forms.FormStartPosition.CenterParent;
            this.Text = "Form1";
            this.Load += new System.EventHandler(this.Form1_Load);
            ((System.ComponentModel.ISupportInitialize)(this.dataGrid1)).EndInit();
            this.ResumeLayout(false);
        }
        #endregion
        /// <summary>
        /// 应用程序的主入口点。
        /// </summary>
        [STAThread]
        static void Main() 
        {
            Application.Run(new Form1());
        }
        private void button1_Click(object sender, System.EventArgs e)
        {
            try
            {
                this.openFileDialog1.Filter = "图片文件(*.jpg;*.gif;*.bmp)|*.jpg;*.gif;*.bmp";
                if(this.openFileDialog1.ShowDialog()==DialogResult.OK)
                {
                    fullname=this.openFileDialog1.FileName;
                    this.pictureBox1.Image=Bitmap.FromFile(fullname);
                    this.picName.Text=fullname;
                    int i=this.openFileDialog1.FileName.LastIndexOf("\\")+1;
                    this.fullname=fullname.Substring(i);
                }
            }
            catch(Exception er)
            {
                MessageBox.Show(er.Message);
            }
        }
        private void button2_Click(object sender, System.EventArgs e)
        {
            try
            {
                FileStream fs=File.OpenRead(fullname);
                byte [] content=new byte[fs.Length];
                fs.Read(content,0,content.Length);
                fs.Close();
            
                OleDbCommand com=new OleDbCommand("insert into image1(pic,picname)values(@pic,'"+this.fullname.Trim().ToString()+"')",con);
                com.Parameters.Add("@pic",OleDbType.Binary);
                com.Parameters["@pic"].Value=content;
                com.ExecuteNonQuery();
                //    con.Close();
                MessageBox.Show("图片成功保存!");
                this.load_data();
            }
            catch(Exception er)
            {
                MessageBox.Show(er.Message);
            }
        }
        private void Form1_Load(object sender, System.EventArgs e)
        {
            this.load_data();            
        }
        void load_data()
        {
            con=new OleDbConnection(@"provider=microsoft.jet.oledb.4.0;data source="+AppDomain.CurrentDomain.BaseDirectory+"image.mdb");
            con.Open();
            da=new OleDbDataAdapter("select * from image1",con);
            ds=new DataSet();
            da.Fill(ds);
            this.dataGrid1.DataSource=ds.Tables[0].DefaultView;
        }
        private int Cur()
        {
            return  this.dataGrid1.CurrentRowIndex;
        }
        private void dataGrid1_Click(object sender, System.EventArgs e)
        {
            try
            {
                //int cur=this.dataGrid1.CurrentRowIndex;
                int cur=this.Cur();
                this.label1.Text=this.ds.Tables[0].Rows[cur]["picname"].ToString();
                MemoryStream ms=new MemoryStream((byte[])this.ds.Tables[0].Rows[cur]["pic"]);
                Image image=Image.FromStream(ms,true);
                this.pictureBox1.Image=image;
            }
            catch(Exception er)
            {
                MessageBox.Show(er.Message);
            }
        }
    }
}