MainForm....
private void MainForm_Load(object sender, EventArgs e)
{
     LoginForm log = new LoginForm();
            log.ShowDialog();
            if (log.DialogResult == DialogResult.OK)
            {
                label1.Text = log.textBox1.Text;//用户名
                label2.Text = log.textBox2.Text;//密码
            }
}
LoginForm....
        private void button1_Click(object sender, EventArgs e)
        {
            if (textBox1.Text == "abc" && textBox2.Text == "123")
                this.DialogResult = DialogResult.OK;
            else
                MessageBox.Show("用户名或密码有误!");
        }